This can’t go on…
You flip through the mail as you walk back to the house.
There’s the Visa bill. Your body tenses and your hands feel cold imagining the growing balance.
That all-inclusive beach vacation with your friends and their kids last month was an expense you couldn’t afford.
You didn’t imagine living paycheck to paycheck.
“He’s going to have to find another job.”
“I can’t work any harder, juggling my job and the kids. My job pays well but is precarious. Everybody seems to want more from me.”
“I’m afraid he’s going to blow up again. We can’t talk about anything anymore.”
And these challenges now affect the kids…
Not being there for them when they need you most.
They’re acting out in school, begging for attention from their teachers and peers that you’re too tired to give at home.
Or they’ve decided to shut you out from their lives completely. They’d rather spend time engaging in reckless and risky behavior with their friends.
When did life become so impossible to manage?
“I need to be better with my finances, but I can’t escape the pressure of keeping up with friends – new homes and new cars!”
“We promised each other forever, but marriage takes work. I don’t know if we are going to make it.”
“I need to spend more time with my kids, but I’m working two jobs just to keep the roof over their heads.”
“I wish things were better… will I ever get a handle on my life again?”
Stop wishing and start reclaiming…
You’ve reached it… the point of no return. It’s the point where you know you need to do better.
Acknowledging our shortcomings is not an easy thing. Denial is a comfortable place, and hoping for things to get better on their own feels like a safer road to travel.
But what you’ve done in the past isn’t working, and it’s time for solutions that work and help you reclaim a better life.
Today is the day you make the call
and talk to someone who will really listen.
Hi, I’m John.
I’ve learned a lot in my 15 years as a therapist. Yet I realize that no matter how hard I try – and I try very hard – I will never understand your life as well as you do.
I am the non-judgmental, supportive, guide to change. I listen to my clients with great attention and respect. In your journey, I will partner with you on a path of renewal and positive change.
You are the expert of you.
I view our working together as a partnership, a collaboration, where we will problem-solve together as opposed to me in the role of expert providing answers for how to improve your life.
I pride myself on my ability to form a connection with the children, adolescents, and adults with whom I have had the privilege to partner.
More about me